Lesson observation today, and a very very good teacher held the attention of a class of sixty very obedient and enthusiastic kids. The lesson was organised, practical and interesting, which was a wonderful feat considering the class size and the resources available!
After the lesson observation we went down to the staffroom and chatted with the teacher, and we had a good time learning about each others' teaching methods (well, her teaching methods, rather), and how classes were run here in general, and also just finding out more about each other.
If there's one thing I want to carry away from here, it's that sense of excellence in doing all things. So many people I've met here do their utmost for everything they do, and it's just so that they can hold their heads high at the end of the day and say, "I've done my best. I have no regrets."
After lessons were over one of the music teachers, Mr Zhu, brought us to a little park where relics of haimen were preserved and the history of Haimen was remembered. It was very pretty, with houses made of straw and a giant tower which we climbed (notwithstanding the fact that we'd climbed a hill the previous day).
Mr Zhu was young and he had a face which promised humour in his character. And we weren't disappointed as we got to know him and found that it was different and refreshing being with him, after having had all these talks and discussions with the older teachers. He asked all sorts of questions and made observations and inferences that were somewhat impertinent and he was very lively and funny. I liked him immediately.
After we finished looking at everything we took a little wander around the park. The Chinese say "
zhuan" for wander, and I like that word. It just evocates taking little turns, and getting lost, and discovering new things, and curiosity and whimsy.
So we were "
zhuan"ing around the park, and we came upon a little lake in the middle of the park with a half-sunk Chinese ship at its side and a shaky bridge in the middle made of half-rotten logs. Mr Zhu immediately leapt onto the bridge with a lively expression after asking us whether we could swim (not a reassuring question, as I was wearing a white dress too, didn't want to even think about the possibility of having to swim). In the end, the three of us walked gingerly across to a raft floating against the side of the bridge, and Mr Zhu wanted to attempt to get on the raft, but he put one foot on it, wobbled frantically, and then thought better of it, and then he spent quite some time searching for a makeshift oar, before trying to get on it a second time and nearly falling into the river.
I had a lot of fun. Maybe this whole attachment has been quite a "coming-of-age" sort of experience, and it was nice to forget about being mature and capable and responsible and well-read, just for a few hours, and laugh and be silly again.
When we got back we went for hotpot with the foreign teachers. They were younger too, around our age, and studying in England plus being in a foreign land gave us a little in common. Fortunately, too, their food tastes were as conservative as ours, and we ended up having Szechuan hotpot with leeks and potatoes and beef and Chinese cabbage and tofu, a sort of western stew in Chinese soup with tofu (!) It was very nice though, a welcome relief from the rather raw food we'd been having over the past few days.
It's been good hanging out with both the Chinese and the westerners. As a Singaporean, in a sense you feel as though you don't fit into either category, and people are always surprised to find out you speak either language ("I didn't know English was your first language!" "I didn't know you speak Chinese!"). But as a Singaporean, in a sense you also fit into both categories, perhps not very comfortably, but enough to learn more about each other's cultures and pick out the good bits, and be able to appreciate the other person.
That night I had a good time talking to a friend of mine from the Leeds cell group, who was back in China for the summer. Being in China, I felt like I understood his country and himself alot more, and we had a good conversation again. Thankfully, I'm not really all alone. There are friends old and new, and of course, there is my oldest Friend of all.